IT'S LIFE, LET IT PASS!

It can be so frustrating when you have a lot going through your head but you can't seem to find the right words to justify your thoughts or feelings or confusion.
It's like everything is muddled up in one big dough and no one seems to really get what's going on, cuz the words can't justify the thoughts,
Then you are just stuck in your own anomia.
Nothing can be more annoying or devastating like when you want to say so many things but the words seem to have gone on a frolic of their own,
then seconds later, when the moment  has passed,  then all the right words would start rushing in and you will be like "why didn't I say this?",  "how could i have said that?".
I'm sure many of you can relate right now.
So what could possibly be the solution to this beautifully packaged problem??
My answer goes thus : It's life,  let it pass .
At least now you know you are not alone so don't beat yourself up too much over that. Such is life,  no one is perfect.
You cannot always say the right things at the right time to suit the right person.
At times,  we say or do the wrong things  but it's in the midst of all these beautiful imperfections that we create for ourselves,  beautiful memories that we can look back on and smile... Why?
Cuz IT WAS LIFE AND YOU DECIDED TO LIVE IT....
Have a beautiful day purplenigmers 😘
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OH HEY PURPLENIGMERS!

The pic says it all. It's two ways.  You can either sit down there and keep wishing or stand up and start working but one thing is sure: the outcome will not be the same. So start something,  don't wait for tomorrow,  JUST DO IT NOW! And while you are it,  stay focused. Keep your eyes on the prize.
If there's one thing i want us to learn today,  it is this : The moment you deviate from the original plan, the entire dream or goal or vision becomes cosmetic.
What am trying to say is that once you set out to do something,  don't get distracted by other attractions you will meet along the way and deviate from the original goal, the ratio decidendi(reason for the decision) because if you do so,  you might just end up achieving nothing at the end of the day.
For instance, the main purpose fir this blog at first,  was just to have a marked territory of my own  where i can pour out my feelings and experiences and daily challenges without having to explain myself to anybody but along the line,  the objective changed. Now my sole aim of Purplenigma97.blogspot.com -  Perfect Imperfections,  is to ignite the fire of positivity, that is constantly being subdued by all shades of negativity, in the world.
Thus,  the point is if your new reason is not better than the previous one,  then stick to the original plan.
Nothing can stop a man who knows where he is going to.
Constantly remind yourself of why you are doing what you are doing and above all,  stay POSITIVE.
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SHORT NOTES

When you push yourself so hard and you think you are about to break, that moment right there,  is when you just broke into something real... It's called LIFE,  so live it,  experience it and shine through it.
Have a lovely day purplenigmers.

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GOD 'S IDEAL 😍😍

Happy new month Purplenigmers😃. Just like yesterday, 2015 rolled in,  and here we are,  almost rolling out of the year .
The Year 2015 has been characterized by a lot of happenings - The Good, Bad and Ugly (I personally have had my share if it all) but despite all,  I am still standing,  you are still standing.
We have every reason to be grateful to the Lord Almighty for life, love,  grace,  health,  family,  friends and lots more.
If not for anything,  for the fact that you can read this post right now and you are not blind,  it's enough reason to just look up and say "Thank you Daddy".
In this new month,  I want us to  carry a positive mentality wherever we go. "I cant" should never be in your diction. Remember, You can do  ALL things through Christ who strengthens us(Philippians 4:13).
Therefore, stay positive, think positive, eat positivity, speak positivity, breathe positivity...
Be so filled with positive vibes that it becomes infectious. Spread it all around you(It's allowed). That's what we the purplenigmers are all about.
Whatsoever you find doing,  do it well. Don't grumble,  don't murmur,  don't hate(it's poisonous). Just be happy and forever grateful for each moment.
Let every work of obligation be an act of inspiration.
You are God's ideal, His Masterpiece,  His work of art, a peculiar personality,  a royal priesthood... Need i say more?
You are made perfect even in your imperfections by a perfect God,  who  has loved  us with an everlasting love. So just keep smiling and keep shining!
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PURPLENIGMERS

Vision : A world where there would be no breathing space for negativity.
Mission : To impact and influence as many lives as possible positively until the world is filled with positive people!
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It's a teamwork remember, i can't do this without you guys. So please suggest,  comment, share, like and give  feedbacks.

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MORNING SUNSHINE 🌞

(singing) You don't have to worry, about a thing... Cuz everything is gonna be alright(stops singing). Lol am soo excited this morning.
Good morning lovers. Am sure your nights were as splendid as mine. Anywayz before you set about your business for today,  this is just a simple reminder that the love of God is made perfect in our weaknesses =-)
So as you go about today, Stay positive,  stay stromg and put a smile on that lovely face.
Remember that God's got you always.
I love but God loves you most<3<3
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MISSED OR NAH?

Lol, would anyone even think of your hottest selfie if you ever go missing? But this leads to a more important question, how many people will notice if you go missing with the way social media has taken over people's lives?? Ever seen the seasonal,  "Being MaryJane"?? Where a particular active and vibrant young lady died and nobody noticed till after three years? Not even her mother, father, boyfriend or anyone? Isn't that scary??
It makes me wonder if we are really of value or importance to anyone or we are all just passing off time in each other's lives and once the time is up,  you get lost and chapter closed! 

Now let's discuss. Has social media positively or adversely affected relationships among people??
Please  this is an open-minded discussion. Let's hear your views.  If negative,  what do you think can be done? Because am sure no one wants to be gone for three years unmissed like the lady in "Being MaryJane".
Lol but on a lighter note, let's have some fun. If you ever go missing(God forbid),  who do you think will notice first?? Comment comment comment.

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THE YADAH PROJECT!

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SEE ME SEE GBEKE!!!

MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH KONGA
My people,  please  help me analyze this us matter.  I got an Asus mini laptop from Konga,  only for me to find out it does not have a hard drive.  An ICT guy now explained to me that it was using cloud storage  . Please  didn't these people  see my location (Ado-Ekiti) before selling such to me??  What they wrote online was 500gb web storage. How will a normal ordinary person know that web storage meant you will be storing and assessing  documents in the cloud and you must be online 24/7to use it(wetin concern law student with ICT).  Immediately i discovered this,  i called Konga customer care,  those ones were just telling me stories. Then i now mailed them and they replied saying  i cannot return the product simply because the seal has been broken (E gba mi) How will i check the product without breaking the seal??
To cut the long story short,  these people have practically frustrated me in every way humanly possible.  I sent subsequent mails which they blatantly ignored.  I have called and called,  wasting over a thousand naira airtime,  all to no avail(this kind when you are tired, you will shutup).  I even offered to add more money to get a bigger laptop in replacement of this one but it all fell on deaf ears.
The most painful part is that i have heard of several returns to Konga,  even after the seal has been broken so why my case is different,  i don't understand. Now my #50,000 is hanging in the air with a totally useless laptop in my custody. Please what should i do?? Or is this product not intact enough to be accepted??

What happened to Konga's so-called return policy?  Whatever happened to customer satisfaction??   It makes me wonder if online shopping malls,  especially Konga,is reliable at all. Please people help me share on Twitter,  instagram,  facebook and the likes. We must get a response to these questions. Thanks

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WHY ARE YOU HERE?

Life is all about opportunities ;
Each day is embedded with chances, risks and opportunities.
From the moment you rise up from bed in the morning,
till you lay back to sleep at night,
there is a constant ram on the door of your heart;
A call for purpose,
an opportunity standing  before you...
Your purpose is not your dream;
Dreams are envisioned by man but purpose is not predetermined (It is God made).
You discover your purpose as you journey through life.
Many a times,  people think they know their purpose but they often mistake purpose for ambition.
What or who you want to become is your ambition,
What you intend to achieve is your dream,
Purpose is another realm entirely.

Your purpose is why you are here on earth and not in space or Mars or Jupiter.
When you talk about dreams,  goals and ambitions,
All these are personal ;self-created and self-oriented,
Purpose is general ; people - focused,
It is centered on everyone but you.
You can never discover your purpose while  in pursuit of your selfish interests and goals,
It is until you look outside the box and see things from a selfless perspective,
Then and only then will you realize your purpose.
Most times,  our purposes are encapsulated in those little things we ignore or consider irrelevant,
not those things we do for ourselves,
but the things we do in the interest of others.
To cut the long story short,  all I  am trying to say is that you find your purpose while helping others discover theirs.
The whole purpose thing is intertwined;
You find your purpose in my purpose and mine in yours... It's a  teamwork.
For me,  this is part of my purpose.
So dear friends,  stop running helter skelter,  from north to south,  in search of purpose and identity ;
Your purpose is right within you.
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SOFT WHISPERS

Hi guys! It's been a minute. To be honest,  i got discouraged and uninterested along the way but hell no! I am not quitting blogging. I got remotivated and here i am.
Well this post is a ladies' special edition. Well getting straight to the business, oh hey girlfriends! we've got some chitchat to do. "I love you", " no girl has ever made me feel the way you do",  "you complete me" , " you possess me" , "nothing can quench my love for you" ,  you know how  the rest of the story goes... Soft whispers all around you,  especially when it's coming from a real cute and sensible guy,  then your heart begins to melt. You most probably once had a crush on him, that's it! Game over. You let your guards down and you are ready to dive into the ocean of love,  even without a life jacket? (Sistur, take a chillpill).
As girls,  we get easily swayed by words; we are moved by what we hear,  especially when it's coming from the bass(guys or males).
As a result of this,  we fall in "love" all too quick too soon,  or at least we think we are.
Once we begin to hear what we like;those sweet words, soft whispers... Then you are like no guy has ever said that to me before and even before your heart decides,  you have allowed your head to do all the love calculation,  then you conclude that he loves you and you love him back.
Truth be told,  there is no average teenage girl that is not moved by what she hears,  especially from a guy she likes, it's just that some are more susceptible than others.
Worse still,  if you had earlier thought that the guy was way out of your league,  then all of a sudden, he starts showing interest in you, it is very normal to tend to rush into a relationship with that kind of guy without weighing the odds.
Girlfriends! There is no guy that is too good or too fresh for anybody. Do not mislead yourself into the illusion that if you say no to this one,  better guys will not come along. That he is all cute and smart, funnyand he was your crush, then you say fate has brought you together(says who?).
That he goes to church, and when he sings,  the heavens open and angels descend does not still mean he is the right one for you.
You  say love is blind? Sweetheart,  love is not blind until you are married and you have to close your eyes to the flaws of your spouse,  but for now,  your eyes are still wide open,  use them well!
Love is patient,  Love is kind!
Any guy who claims to love you but cannot wait until you are ready does not love you.
If a guy says he loves you, he should respect you in every way and put your feelings first before his.
It is not just by the words or soft whispers, it must be backed up by deeds. Those little gestures, efforts and sacrifices(observing even the tiniest details about you like the way you hold your coffee mug or the change in your tone  when you  are sad) ,  make all the difference. To them(guys),  it might be insignificant but to us,  it means everything.
It costs a guy nothing to compose a very sweet,  captivating and romantic text, it is their calling!So don't get all mushy and excited and head over heels in love just because of a text,  It is no big deal!
Learn to time - proof any attraction a guy has towards you. Is it love or lust or infatuation? Will it stand the test of time? How far is he willing to go to be with you? Does he care about your feelings or he is just attracted to your body? Is he willing to make sacrifices for you?
These are the questions that should register in your head before giving any guy a chance. Your heart is too expensive to be thrown at every Tom,  Dick and Harry that professes love to you.
So girlfriends, it's time to bend the rules a bit and fuel up the chase. They love  challenges,  give it to them. Don't make it too easy for them.
Anticipate more posts in this title "SOFT WHISPERS"
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STYLE IS AN EXPRESSION!

Yes itz been a while... I know... I'm sorry....
So we are going to be talking about something interesting this time. STYLE! What do you know about style?
Many people often mistake style for fashion but they are not one and the same.
Fashion is general,  style is unique! Fashion is knowing what to buy while style is what you do with it.
While Fashion can be imitated,  style ought to be initiated.
Your style should tell a story;
Yoyr style should make a statement ;
Your style should define who you are, it should compliment your personality.
Don't just wear an outfit because you saw a celeb rocking it on TV ,
Wear what suits you;
Wear what makes you feel good about yourself ;
Wear what makes you feel comfortable in your own skin.
And who says you have to be half naked before you look good??
My dear,  MODESTY IS THE NEW SEXY!
S- Stand out
T-  Trendy
Y- Younique
L- Love what you wear
E- Elegant
Yes. That's my definition of STYLE!
Meanwhile,  here are some killer styles to feed your eyes with. Get inspired and create your own style;)

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Sorry guys,  the ladies have more styles, you know we like wahala... So which is your fave style from 1-15?

For me,  I really like 1and 5 for the guys and 6&11 for the ladies. Tell me your own fave:) If you enjoyed this post,  like,  share,  comment and tell a friend about Purplenigma97.blogspot.com. Bless! 

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