SOFT WHISPERS(2) - YOU CAN SEE BUT YOU CAN'T TOUCH

Morning ladies and gents,  though this post is specially for the ladies buh if the gents want to read also, feel free.
So if you check through my previous posts, you will stumble on the first part of this topic - SOFT WHISPERS (1).Yeah,that's right, this is the second episode.
So what are we talking about this time?
"Sometimes love comes around,
And it knocks  you down,
You just get back up,
When it knocks you down,  knocks you down... "
Keri Hilson was definitely on track  when she sang these lyrics.
He said he loved you, you fall in love also, along the line,  you get hurt, does that mean it's the end of the world? Tomorrow is still Friday, Obama is still the U. S president, nothing has changed...
You have only added to the depth of your experience, get the lesson and MOVE ON! Don't wallow in self-pity or regrets, they will only drain you physically, mentally and emotionally.
Buh sistur, love can't keep knocking you down anyhow because you just might get too weak to stand up. So what can we do about the situation? Here are few tips:
1)Never test the waters of love with both feet. You may drown. He said he loves you but you are not sure yet, his actions do not fit the words, then don't go all head over heels in love with him. Get a good grip over your emotions girl!
2)Love and sex ain't the same thing. There is this illusion spreading like wild fire, not just now, that sex equals love and vice - versa. Please, biko my sisters beware! This is a lie from the pit of hell. Love has never meant sex and it never will. Sex only makes love stronger between married couples but if you are not married and you are having sex,  it will consume you,  that's why it is called CONSUMATION.
Ladies please be wise,  gone are the days when we still leave in ignorance of the vices of the guys. Now the signals are everywhere. If a boy tells you to prove your love by sex,  then you should see the DANGER SIGN all over his forehead and RUN. That guy obviously does not love you, he only lusts you.  There are no exceptions to this general rule. It is absolute so don't go deceiving yourself saying my case is different, our love is special. Guys will always be guys!!! Once they get what they want,  they are out.
Most times, after the sex,  they don't even want to talk to the lady again, they start giving attitude and all,  it has happened so many times so don't fall a victim. To be forewarned is to before harmed!
There are soft whispers all around you,  sweet words but keep your head straight and be calm.  It is just a feeling, it will pass.
Let us revive that good old rule:
YOU CAN ONLY SEE BUT YOU CAN'T TOUCH!